5 Bites Friday (#20)



A cold week spent in hometown – here are the 5 things I pondered upon during last seven days…

1: What I am reading…
I got a little distracted from the otherwise jolly but long tale of the 4 sisters in Little Women, and during the past week, I started a parallel book that I have been very passionate and keen to read: How Proust can change your life’ by Alain de Botton. It is a very philosophical and microscopic study of both the work and life of the great Marcel Proust. It is hilarious, illustrative, meaningful and above all it does what it promises to do – provide an opportunity to change your way of living by reading and examining that of Marcel Proust.

2: What I watched…
I am still due on watching many award nominated movies, after which I shall compose my own Top 10 from amongst them. In the process, this past week, with the weather forcing me to stay put indoors, I did watch a couple of truly inspiring movies:
Jojo Rabbit: this movie was a total surprise for me. It is satirical, hilarious, wise, sweet and defiant in a new way to the ugliness of war and cruelty. This movie has a heart at its core, and is embodied with a heroic journey of a little boy.
Peanut Butter Falcon: a down-syndrome patient breaks free from an old-people caring center pursuing his dream of getting wrestling training from his idol whose tape he watches ten times a day. This story is about making possibilities happen regardless of the impossibilities – because it is, against the logical terms, always so possible.

3: Snowfall in adulthood...
Snowfall, where I live, is one of those deeply desired events amidst the dry cold winters. And while it not only snowed but snowed heavily this time around, there wasn’t that readiness towards the celebration of having white landscapes all around. As we grow older, we become more aware of our impulses of wanting to do something with a group, but we also fall into an assumption based on past rejections that others wouldn’t be so ready to participate and entertain our childhood feelings about snowfall. From an introvert’s perspective, when you sulk on such a one-time event, there’s really no getting you out of there. Then, the perspective about the snowfall, which was so merry in childhood, shifts to the aftermath of having to deal with the problems that come with such heavy snowfalls: cleaning the rooftops, slippery roads, cold hands and feet etc., all of which are not any pleasant at all. What have you but a sad snowfall?

4: One last undesired thing from 2019...
 My semester results also came out during the past week and it was the lowest it has been in total of 5 semesters. Luckily, I passed all courses, however my CGPA got a significant hit because of this low turnout. It is quite disappointing to have to face such a result not because you were graded unfairly, but because you put unfair efforts into subjects that deserved more care and study time. Eating the humble pie, I am more convinced, but at the same time uncertain, of putting better efforts in the coming semester. If anything, I will be walking into this semester with some key lessons for sure.

5: Quote that I love so much…
“Human, all too human.” – Nietzsche
However extravagantly cynic Nietzsche sounds in this declaration, I nonetheless adore him for this! Indeed, we humans are but too humanly until we are alive and well, how pitiful then to be proud of our race!