5 Bites Friday (#41)

 

‘It dawned, and I didn’t see it happening’. Days are brightening up again. Welcome to this week’s 5BF: the beauty of leading a Nomadic life, a conventionalist guide to getting married, a classic pair of great poetry and heart-reaching vocals, and more…

 


1: Movie Recommendations

Brace yourselves, again. A couple more great movies to watch:

Nomadland – a beautiful, slow, and calming movie that captures the timeless and transcendental wisdom of living in a moving van – a moving home. The Nomads live amongst the nature, amidst its beauties and its harshness, uncomplainingly while truly appreciating the importance of human connections. A life where no one says the ‘last goodbye’; you just say, ‘see you down the road’.

The Trial of Chicago 7 (Netflix) – 7 patriotic and peace-championing people, coming from three distinct groups, with a common revolutionary aim of putting an end to the Vietnam war. An amazing retelling of the Chicago riots of the 1967 and the 1968 trial, this movie reveals why stepping up against evil is not only important but even historic. And you do not have to be a person in power to do it, anyone from a young student, to comedian, to people of color, and anyone ordinary can do it – as long as you put the end result before yourself and your viewpoints.

 


2: This Week’s Articles

How to be a Patriarch (@aeon) – a straightforward, practical, stark, even if a little too conventionalist, this article is about who to marry, how to raise children, and most of all, how to be patriarchic husband and father. An absolute must read!

How to find the One (@aeon) – a comprehensive, wise, and timely relevant article that rejects the quest of finding the one as ‘unrealistic’, and instead explains to the readers who ‘the one’ is for everyone and how ‘finding the one’ is not only possible but achievable. We just need to know and adjust our expectations.

Smoking with Friends (@aeon) – a beautiful, and almost novelistic, article that investigates male friendships and how smoking brings the men together – to be themselves in their own company.

 


3: What I And Listening

I have been watching a 1990s drama based on the life of the great Urdu poet, Mirza Ghalib. While the drama is great, what is even more amazing is that the Music is from Jagjit Singh. So this past week, after a deep discussion about language, poetry, philosophy, and music with my flat-mates, I found the inspiration to listen to Jagjit, once again, singing in his heart-reaching voice the great ghazals of Ghalib. And I’ve been listening to this particular ghazal on repeat: ‘Aah to chahiye ek umr asarhoney tak

 


4: A Poem from movie Nomadland

 

“Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate.
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer's lease hath all too short a date;
 
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimm'd.
And every fair from fair sometimes declines,
By chance or nature's changing course undimm'd;
 
But thy eternal summer shall not fade,
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow'st;
Nor shall death brag thou walk'st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st:
 
So long as men can breathe and eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.”

 


5: This Week’s Quote

‘Some people never trust themselves; but isn’t that just trust in the mistrust of themselves?’

-d.a (Mirror has four Faces)